If you have ever known a control freak you will know what I am talking about. They must be in control, so that the title "control freak" is legitimately earned. Now helping a control-freak plan a marriage, are you able to imagine, after all everything is going to be forced to be completely controlled.
Or you can get drug into the chaos and panic and loose your reason. And ultimately one will and all you are able to do is be their to pick up the pieces. "Now a sane person would wonder what does an ideal date look like, but a control fetishist spends hours going thru every month and each date listing the debates till they are satisfied they have found the perfect date. God help us all if the weather decides to not co-operate.
But that is OK after some nerve-wrangling day my control-freak girl has decided that Aug 16th 2006 will be an ideal day. To the sane person it's going to be an ideal day regardless of what goes pear shaped, but to my control fetishist girl all I am able to hope is the day is really perfect in each way. Well our next mission was the robe and if you have not shopped with a control fetishist you will not understand how comical this could be. At least from the view point I have selected to take. Grant it some moments are sufficient to make your hair stand up and scream "Stop you are driving me funny.
Start with an idea of what you have got to spend.
Things to think about when making a budget for your marriage, may include but are not restricted to.
Honorarium for church, or fee for other placement of the celebration. You can reduce costs on a formal marriage by hiring the groom a morning suit rather than purchasing one.
Your marriage should be special, and everything you dreamed about. Making a budget will help you in achieving that dream, while getting shot of the strain of troubling over costs. An ordinary soul will know that there's no such thing as the ideal marriage dress or the peerlessly fitted wedding dress right off the rack. As chance would as blind luck would have it one bridal show as she shifted thru the robes this handsome dress jumped out at her. Not an alteration required, not a tuck, not a hem.