He told me we were always behind on our bills because I could not figure the budget in the correct way. Eventually, I either went places with him or I stayed home. I was frightened to even walk across the way to the park - so I never went. He didn't make me submit by becoming violent with me. After seeing one another for years and being tagged as 'in love' since perpetuity, you desire to bring this to a logical end. You are inaccurate if you're thinking that I am commending a divorce even before you are basically married. The end to each love is marriage -the marriage of 2 bodies and 2 souls.
Spend as much as you can, because marriage loans are there to pay each penny of the costs. This could go much higher if you're planning to have a gala marriage with all of the pomp and show included. Just as the folks or guardians lost their say over the choice of bride or groom, they have small to do in the planning and financing of the wedding. There are a number of other costs which appear insignificant if seen individually, but become tough to repay when taken in totality. Using a Credit card can be easy if one goes by the instant outcomes. I felt perhaps this was the start of some stability for us. It took me still 2 more months before I made a decision I needed a divorce.